Are you a good kisser?
When's the last time someone told you, 'Wow, you're a great kisser!'?
Divorce can mean a long hiatus from making out, so if you're re-entering the dating world, it's likely been a while. Let's be real, most couples on the road to divorce haven't been locking lips lately.
And those intense, passionate kisses with your ex? They probably turned into quick pecks over time.
But fear not, with a little practice, you'll be back in the kissing game in no time!
There's no one definitive answer to what makes a good kisser. It's all about personal preference. What's enjoyable to one person might not be to another.
So, don't stress too much about it, and focus on finding what works for you and your partner!
Aside from hearing the magical word "WOW," here are some signs you might be a great kisser:
Your partner responds positively. If your partner seems to enjoy kissing you and seems enthusiastic about it, that's a good sign that you're doing something right.
You're attentive. A good kisser pays attention to their partner's cues and responds to them. This means you're not just focused on your own pleasure, but you're also aware of your partner's needs and desires.
You have good timing. A good kisser knows when to speed up, slow down, or change the intensity of the kiss. This requires good timing and awareness of your partner's body language.
Uncertain about your kissing skills? No worries.
Here are some tips for being a better kisser:
Start slow and gentle. Begin with a soft, closed-mouth kiss and gradually increase the intensity.
Use your hands. Run your hands through your partner's hair or lightly touch their face or neck. This will enhance the intimacy and passion of the kiss. No breast grabs straight away.*
Use your tongue. When you're both ready, gently touch your tongue to your partner's lips and wait for them to respond. If they open their mouth, slowly explore each other's mouths with your tongues. Avoid leaving your tongue in their mouths like a dead fish.*
Mix it up. Try different techniques, such as using your teeth or pulling back slightly to tease your partner. Remember to always be attentive to your partner's cues and respond accordingly.
Practice makes perfect. Don't worry if it doesn't feel perfect the first time. The more you practice and communicate with your partner, the better you'll become.
Kissing is all about being present in the moment and enjoying the intimacy and passion of the experience.
So, relax, have fun, and let the moment take you where it will!
The best way to find out if you're a good kisser is to communicate with your partner. This can help you understand what your partner likes and dislikes and how you can improve your kissing skills.
