3 Signs You're Ready To Date Again
“How long should I wait to date after my divorce?"
This is the question everyone wants answered. My coaching clients. My recently divorced friends. Hell — even my therapist is unsure what to do.
While this probably isn’t what you want to hear, there is no one-size-fits-all answer because everyone's journey is unique.
As an adult, you're free to make your own decisions and timelines.
If you're unsure if you're ready to date again, there are some signs to look out for.
Three signs you're ready to date again after your divorce:
You've let go of the past. You find yourself no longer dwelling on your ex-spouse or the reasons for the divorce and feel at peace with your past.
You have a strong sense of self. You've spent time reflecting on yourself and your own needs, desires, and boundaries. You feel confident in who you are and what you want out of a relationship.
You are excited about the prospect of meeting someone new. You feel a sense of anticipation and excitement about the idea of dating and meeting new people.
An essential part of the dating after-divorce process to remember is - it's okay if you go on a date and realize you're not ready yet.
Be honest and open about your feelings with yourself and your potential partner.
Ultimately, it's about looking within and deciding if you want to find someone because you want to share your life with someone else or because you feel an emptiness that needs to be filled.
Take your time, be honest with yourself, and when you're ready, go for it.
