7 Tips For Your Next Video Date
In the world of dating that is currently virtual due to the coronavirus, I thought it would be helpful to share a few pointers you may find useful on how to look your best on your next video date.
Good lighting is important. There’s a reason why professional photoshoots focus on this so much. Good lighting can help you look more attractive to your date. If it’s still light out, use a window in front of you (never behind). During an evening chat, it’s best to use overhead light, as well as a lamp, or an LED ring light with a phone clip. I got mine on Amazon & it’s my favorite purchase yet. With the clip your hands are free, your face and area around you are well lit and you’re on your way to a great virtual date. 💋
PRO tip – If you use Zoom, you can opt for the user-friendly filter which edits most facial imperfections. Trust me, everyone does it. Before you sign on with your date for your next zoom call – Go to Video settings at the bottom left, then – Video – my Video- select ‘Touch up my appearance’ & Voilà!! You can thank me later.
Use a good angle. Hold the phone or prop your camera a little higher than your face. No one in the history of video calls has ever looked attractive from an angle below their line of sight.
Clean up your space. Wherever you choose to do your virtual date, clean up the space around you. You might think ‘Oh, it’s okay, she won’t see this corner.’ That is until you get up to show her something in the other room and the laundry pile in the corner is in full view.
Take the edge off with a beverage of your choice (if you choose to partake). Dating is stress-inducing. A happy hour date can make things a little less nerve-wracking and can be fun for both participants. I’d say keep it at a two-drink maximum.
Have a few go-to questions – Instead of the usual, “What do you like to do for fun?” why not try asking her if she has any siblings? Where does she like to go on vacation? What is something embarrassing that happened growing up? The more you ask open-ended questions, the more likely the conversation will keep flowing.
Lastly & arguably most important, dress nicely! It’s really easy to slack off on one thing which I consider to be one of the most important aspects of a date, presentation. During a video call with your date you are still “presenting” yourself, so why not put forth a little more effort? A button-up vs. a t-shirt speaks volumes to the woman who is taking time out of her evening to call you. I believe it goes without saying, but regardless of how nice your pectoral muscles may be, shirtless is never an option for these virtual dates. Happy hunting and stay sexy my friends!
Questions or suggestions? Email jade@datingafterdivorce.com
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