Scarcity Vs. Abundance Mindset - Matchmaker Barbie Edition
Matchmaker Barbie (aka. Jade) here, your go-to guide for dating after divorce.
I've worked with countless singles, and I want to share a little secret to success with you - an abundance mindset determines how your dating journey goes.
Are you dating with a scarcity or abundance mindset?
I thought I'd channel a cultural icon for this piece of dating advice. Who better to take notes from on abundance mindset than Barbie?
Scarcity Mindset
A scarcity mindset occurs when you're too fixated on the lack of something, whether it's time, dates, or opportunities.
Here are some common challenges you might face with this mindset:
Fear and Mistrust - You worry that suitable partners are few and far between. This can make you hesitant and guarded in new interactions.
Settling for Less - You have a fear of being alone, which can lead you to settle for less than you deserve.
Negative Outlook - Your scarcity mindset clouds your vision, making it hard to see the good in potential partners.
Emotional Baggage - You have lingering emotional scars from divorce which can hinder your openness to new connections.
Abundance Mindset
Dating with an abundance mindset means loving yourself and believing you deserve love just as much as anyone else.
Here are a few signs you’re dating with an abundance mindset:
Positive Outlook - You embrace a positive outlook, recognizing the countless opportunities for meaningful connections.
Confidence and Growth - You focus on personal growth, learning from past experiences to build healthier connections.
Healthy Standards and Boundaries - You know your worth, set healthy boundaries, and wait for the right partner.
Emotional Openness - You're open and vulnerable in new relationships, letting go of past hurts.
How Do I Start Dating with an Abundance Mindset?
Ready to shift your mindset? Here's how to cultivate abundance and find the love you deserve:
Embrace Self-Love - Prioritize self-care, attracting others who appreciate and value you for who you are!
Practice Patience - Trust the process; the right person WILL come into your life, but be proactive.
Embrace Vulnerability - Open your heart to forge deep and authentic connections. Yes, it can be scary AF.
Set Your Standards - Know your worth and don't settle for less than genuine joy and fulfillment.
Final Thoughts
As you navigate the dating world post-divorce, embrace abundance and let go of scarcity. Trust the journey and remember—I'm here cheering you on every step of the way. I can't wait to see what's in store for you!
