Top 5 Dating Tips for Single Parents
Dating after divorce can be thrilling… and complicated, especially for single parents.
Balancing busy personal and professional lives, children, co-parenting drama and emotions can be overwhelming, but it IS possible to find an amazing partner in this next chapter.
Here are 5 Essential Dating Tips for Single Parents to help you navigate the dating world:
1. Craft an Intriguing Profile -
Showcase your parental status on dating apps to set clear expectations. Highlight your unique interests (outside of your children), values, and relationship goals to attract like-minded individuals who align with your lifestyle. Keep it simple; “Proud father of 2” or “Proud Mom of 1”, etc.
Pro tip: Include a photo of you and your kid(s) with an emoji over their face(s). Why?Because visuals speak volumes. Not everyone reads bios, but they do look at photos. Let's weed out those who aren't ready for an amazing single parent like you.
2. Safety is #1 -
Avoid sharing sensitive details such as your children's faces, their school, too much work information, or your exact location. Safeguarding your personal contact information is crucial for your safety and privacy.
3. Short on time? Suggest a Video Chat -
As a busy single parent, your time is precious. Utilize video chats as a powerful tool to assess compatibility before investing further. Next time you match with someone you’re interested in say, “I’d love to do a quick video happy hour call Tuesday or Wednesday if you’re free”. It saves time, verifies their online photos, and helps assess compatibility before committing further. Keep the call short and sweet (under 30 mins) to decide if they're worth getting a sitter for or not.
4. Embrace Your Worth & Ignore the BS -
Tune out negative opinions and unsolicited advice from friends, family, and co-workers. Trust yourself, follow your heart, and remember that rejection is redirection. You are an incredible, resilient, and amazing single parent deserving of love.
My favorite saying on unsolicited opinions? If you’re not paying my bills then your opinion doesn’t matter.
5. Slow and Steady Wins the Race -
After a divorce, it can feel like such a rush to throw yourself full force into an exciting new relationship. Treasure the dating journey by taking it slow. When in your life do you get to date someone and evaluate how you feel about them before anyone else?
Avoid rushing into commitments or introducing your children too soon. Although, each family is unique, disclosing your dating life should be done cautiously. Prioritize your children's well-being and enjoy the process of discovering a genuine connection.
Remember, we’re looking for the long-lasting slow burn connection, not fireworks that go out once lit.
By embracing these tips for single parents dating after divorce, you'll pave the way for a fulfilling partnership that compliments your beautiful family.
